Day 35 - Buoyancy - #40 Acts - final countdown

We all live in the centre of our own narrative, but it's helpful to remember that everyone around us has their own story too. It has highs and lows, and sometimes those lows are seemingly invisible. Today we're each going to be a lifesaver for someone going through a tough time at the moment.
Ask their friends and family what that person needs instead of asking them, and be sensitive to the person's privacy and dignity.

The Challenge for today is at the following link   http://40acts.org.uk/the-challenge/buoyancy-aid/

In particular, I like the Amber option:

Amber: Sometimes in times of crisis, trying to explain to others how they can help is too exhausting. See if you can find out how to meet a practical need in the person’s life, without necessarily asking them first (other close friends and family are a good place to start). It could be something as simple as offering time to talk, running some errands or a quick grocery delivery that keeps them above water
today.

As we walk through this journey of life, there are highs and lows for all of us.  Some of us may experience crisis in different ways but in every situation we need support.  We have family & friends who have gone through crisis from time to time - and what I have found most helpful is to 'Be available' ,to offer that support be it a call, meal, hug or listening ear.  God directs us on how to be that support to someone - but we need to quieten ourselves to know what to do.

What I remember most when going through some difficult times is the people who were there with us supporting us in the difficult time.  When we had our first miscarriage, I remember friends just being there to support us.  They didn't have to say anything just having them present made all the difference.

Sometimes we need to step outside our comfort zones when we see someone in need ,to ask if there is something that we can do for them. 

My amber challenge today is offering time to talk and listen to a friend in need. 

We need to remember always that everyone has a story & everyone needs a friend

Dana